How to Stop Killing Your Dreams Before They Are Born

“Imagination is more important than knowledge.” Albert Einstein 

If you’ve been around a young child you know how vivid their imaginations can be.

They are born to dream big!

And so are we.

Young children are an example of pure unadulterated imagination. From imaginary friends to pretend play, they are able to create a new world in which they want to live.

Creating what you want in your life is exactly the same process. You have to be able to imagine the life you want and believe that it can be a reality.

Unfortunately our creativity and imagination gets stifled by the hustle and bustle of the “real” world. It gets lost in all the messages telling us to “get real” and “be practical.”

When this happens our imagination becomes tainted. Instead of seeing how wonderful life can be we focus on all the things we’re afraid might happen if don’t act logically.

We might find ourselves saying, “Who am I to do this,” “That’s a stupid idea,” “That would never work.”

Even though we believe these thoughts are keeping us safe from taking a risk, we end up living a quiet life of desperation worrying about all the problems we want to avoid, instead of using our imagination to get what we want.

So, instead of your imagination getting the best of you, like the kid worried about the monster in the closet, start using your imagination to create the life you want.

It all starts with letting yourself dream again. Here are a few ideas.

How to start dreaming

Create a dream board – Getting in touch with your imagination should be fun, and this is one example where you can let go of the seriousness of life and allow yourself to dream again. Create a dream board/vision board where you construct a visual representation of the life you desire.

Put images, words, and pictures that inspire you and keep you focused on important goals and aspirations. Place the board somewhere you will see it each day as a reminder to visualize what you want.

Keep a dream journal – How many times throughout the day do you have a big idea that falls through the cracks because you didn’t write it down? Instead of losing these ideas find a way to capture them. There are countless apps that allow you save your ideas on the go. I personally use Evernote, but any mobile notepad will work.

Write down any dream that comes to mind. Whether it’s a vacation destination, a creative idea, or something you wanted since you were a child write it down when it comes to mind.

Get awe-inspired – Inspiration might be one of the most powerful emotions for expanding our mind. This is why people love sports, art, and amazing feats of nature. When we see miraculous displays of strength and power it shakes us up a bit. It reminds us how extraordinary the world is.

The universe is creative by its nature and we too are created to use our imagination. Find inspiration in your life. Look up the seven wonders of the world and really reflect on their magnitude. I watched the documentary Africa on Discovery channel over the last month as a simple source of inspiration. Find something to expand your mind.

Keep a beginners mind – One way to keep inspired and open-minded is to look at the world through fresh eyes. Keep what Zen Buddhism calls a “beginners mind,” where we approach life as a novice and admit how little we know. This helps us experience things with open receptiveness. You will judge less and accept more. Imagine that you’re experiencing the world for the first time, and be willing to break out of the conditioning that keeps you looking through a stale lens.

Turn imagination into results

“There’s really no secret about our approach. We keep moving forward–opening new doors and doing new things–because we’re curious. And curiosity keeps leading us down new paths. We’re always exploring and experimenting… we call it Imagineering–the blending of creative imagination and technical know-how.” -Walt Disney

For those of you left brainers like me, you may be “thinking” I can’t just be a “dreamer,” I have to get things done!

To turn imagination into results, both the creative mind and the rational mind are important, but we don’t want the left brain to stifle our creativity before we get started.

Let yourself dream big before you pick apart the idea. You can always go back later to analyze and create a specific plan. This is what Walt Disney was referring to in the above quotation, and what the minimum viable product is all about that Eric Ries explores in his book The Lean Startup.

Use imagination to help you visualize the life you desire. Let your ideas free, and then create a plan and system as you go to bring your ideas to fruition.

Sometimes this is the only way to materialize our ideas.

Dreaming is what keeps us alive! So whatever your dreams may be at this point in your life, whether it’s being wealthy, finding love, or making a difference in the world, embrace them and allow them to unfold naturally. Don’t sell yourself short before you have a chance to begin.

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  • http://twitter.com/HealthyLife_UK Healthy Lifestyles

    One of the biggest turning points in my life was the day i allowed myself to visualise the life i wanted. As a life coach we were required to be coached ourselves, and i went to somebody specialising in creative visualization. The power of creating your dreams in your mind is awe inspiring, and truly brings understanding to the words, what you see is what you get. So you’re right, if need be get back to your childhood and day dream.

  • http://www.facebook.com/victor.schueller Victor Schueller

    Joe, you’re absolutely right — we have such big dreams, and then they get squashed, hushed, or ridiculed, and we learn to either stop dreaming, dream “smaller,” or keep the dreams to ourselves, for fear of ridicule or push-back. You have a great message here, and your recommendations, as usual, are gold. Thanks for sharing! :)

  • Joe @ Shake off the Grind

    Hi,

    Thanks for stopping by and commenting! I have started getting back into visualization because there is such a strong emotional component to it. When I can clearly see an image of what I want it gives a boost in motivation and confidence. I use this most often for business related endeavors but have also started using it for other areas of my life.

  • Joe @ Shake off the Grind

    Hi Victor,

    Hope you’re well! Thank you for commenting! It takes persistence to stick with our dreams. But I believe that we need to dream. It is an important part of giving life meaning and filling us up with energy. I don’t believe we are ever to old to dream or create something amazing, we just need a reminder that this is a natural state we can connect with.

  • http://www.acalltoaction.net/ Trevor Wilson

    I would add to get out, experience life, and get stuff done. The simple act of truly living will provide insight and inspiration that can’t be found through any other means. It will show you possibilities you would have never imagined. You WILL dream . . . and dream big.
    Cheers!

  • Joe @ Shake off the Grind

    Hi Trevor,

    Thanks for stopping by! You offer a great point! There is nothing more inspirational than actually experiencing new and exciting things. I would agree that would do well to get out of our heads into the world.

  • http://twitter.com/EFTFreedom Ben Ross

    It really is a shame that our natural creativity and dreaming is programming out of us as we are growing up. The big learning is to learn to access that again and to keep as much of that as possible when growing up despite everyone telling you not to.

    -Ben

  • Joe @ Shake off the Grind

    HI Ben,

    Always great hearing from you! Thanks for stopping by. It is unfortunate that when people give up their dreams they begin to discourage others. When people say we can’t do something it comes from their personal doubts, and realizing this is crucial to rise above the doubters.

  • http://twitter.com/EFTFreedom Ben Ross

    Wow, that is so true! Just because they can’t do something they shouldn’t assume that others can’t. I guess this is one reason why people doing it trigger them so much.

    -Ben